There are a lot of good books on bonding and dealing with children with Attachment Disorder. Here is a list of some of the books I recommend on the subject:

 

Adopting the Hurt Child: Hope for Families With Special-Needs Kids : A Guide for Parents and Professionals - by Gregory C. Keck & Regina M. Kupecky

Building the Bonds of Attachment: Awakening Love in Deeply Troubled Children - by Daniel A. Hughes

Change Your Brain, Change Your Life: The Breakthrough Program for Conquering Anxiety, Depression, Obsessiveness, Anger, and Impulsiveness - by Daniel G. Amen

The Connected Child: Bring hope and healing to your adoptive family - by Karyn B. Purvis, David R. Cross & Wendy Lyons Sunshine

Dandelion on My Pillow, Butcher Knife Beneath - by Nancy L. Thomas, Beth Thomas & Terena Thomas

Don’t Touch My Heart - by Linda Gianforte Mansfield

Facilitating Developmental Attachment: The Road to Emotional Recovery and Behavioral Change in Foster and Adopted Children - by Daniel A. Hughes

The Family Virtues Guide: Simple Ways to Bring Out the Best in Our Children and Ourselves - by Linda Kavelin Popov, Dan Popov & John Kavelin

Ghosts from the Nursery: Tracing the Roots of Violence - by Robin Karr-Morse, Meredith S. Wiley & Dr. T. Berry Brazelton (Introduction)

The Happiest Toddler on the Block - by Harvey Karp, MD

Healing the Hardware of the Soul: How Making the Brain-Soul Connection Can Optimize Your Life, Love, and Spiritual Growth - by Daniel Amen

High Risk: Children Without A Conscience - by Ken Magid

Holding Time - by Martha G. Welch & Mary Ellen Mark

Little Bunny Says Goodbye to Birth Mom - by Sherri Malloy, PhD

The Miracle Worker - by William Gibson

99 Ways To Drive Your Child Sane - by Brita St. Clair

The Primal Wound: Understanding the Adopted Child - by Nancy Verrier

The Secret Life of the Unborn Child: How You Can Prepare Your Baby for a Happy, Healthy Life - by Thomas Verny & John Kelly

Sink Reflections: Overwhelmed? Disorganized? Living in Chaos? The FlyLady's Simple FLYing Lessons Will Show You How to Get Your Home and Your Life in Order--and It All Starts with Shining Your Sink! - by Marla Cilley

So You Want to Be a Prince? - by Deborah Hage, MSW

So You Want to Be a Princess? - by Deborah Hage, MSW

Therapeutic Parenting It's a Matter of Attitude! - by Deborah Hage, MSW

Touching: The Human Significance of the Skin - by Ashley Montagu

Understanding and Treating the Severely Disturbed Child - by Foster W. Cline

When Love Is Not Enough: A Guide to Parenting Children with RAD - by Nancy L. Thomas